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HI, I am currently looking for anyone that has policies regarding dating between co workers or office romance policies.
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Romance in the workplace policies

posted at 1/30/2013 10:17 AM EST on Workforce Management
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HI, I am currently looking for anyone that has policies regarding dating between co workers or office romance policies.

Re: Romance in the workplace policies

posted at 2/5/2013 10:32 AM EST on Workforce Management
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HI, I am currently looking for anyone that has policies regarding dating between co workers or office romance policies.
Posted by Jgreaves


The February Legal Update published by Barker Olmsted -- at barkerolmsted.com -- has an article on this subject.

Re: Romance in the workplace policies

posted at 2/5/2013 1:07 PM EST on Workforce Management
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First: 9/20/2011
Last: 2/11/2013
From SHRM

Employee Dating Policy

Policy

The organization strongly believes that an environment where employees maintain clear boundaries between employee personal and business interactions is most effective for conducting business. Although this policy does not prevent the development of friendships or romantic relationships between coworkers, it does establish very clear boundaries as to how relationships will progress during working hours and within the working environment. Individuals in supervisory relationships or other influential roles are subject to more stringent requirements under this policy due to their status as role models, their access to sensitive information and their ability to influence others.

Procedures

1. During working time and in working areas employees are expected to keep personal exchanges limited so that others are not distracted or offended by such exchanges and so that productivity is maintained.

2. During non-working time, such as lunches, breaks and before and after work periods, employees are not precluded from having appropriate personal conversations in non-work areas as long as their conversations and behaviors could in no way be perceived as offensive or uncomfortable to a reasonable person.

3. Employees are strictly prohibited from engaging in physical contact that would in any way be deemed inappropriate by a reasonable person while anywhere on company premises, whether during working hours or not.

4. Employees who allow personal relationships with coworkers to affect the working environment will be subject to the appropriate provisions of the company disciplinary policy which may include counseling for minor problem. Failure to change behavior and maintain expected work responsibilities is viewed as a serious disciplinary matter.

5. Employee off-duty conduct is generally regarded as private, as long as such conduct does not create problems within the workplace. An exception to this principle, however, is romantic or sexual relationships between supervisors and subordinates.

6. Supervisors, managers, executives or anyone else in sensitive or influential positions must disclose the existence of any relationship with another coworker that has progressed beyond a platonic friendship. Disclosure may be made to the immediate supervisor or the Director of HR. This disclosure will enable the organization to determine whether any conflict of interest exists because of the relative positions of the individuals involved.

7. Where problems or potential risks are identified the organization will work with the parties involved to consider options for resolving the problem. The initial solution may be to make sure that the parties involved no longer work together on matters where one is able to influence the other or take action for the other. Matters such as hiring, firing, promotions, performance management, compensation decisions, financial transactions, etc. are examples of situations that may require reallocation of duties to avoid any actual or perceived reward or disadvantage.

8. In some cases other measures may be necessary such as transfer to other positions or departments.

9. Refusal of reasonable alternative positions, if available, will be deemed a voluntary resignation.

10. Continued failure to work with the organization to resolve such a situation in a mutually agreeable fashion may ultimately be deemed insubordination and therefore serve as cause for immediate termination. The organization’s disciplinary policy will be consulted to ensure consistency, however, before any such extreme measures are undertaken.

11. The provisions of this policy apply regardless of the sexual orientation of the parties involved.

12. Where doubts exist as to the specific meaning of the terms used above, employees should make judgments on the basis of the overall spirit and intent of this policy.

13. Any employee who feels they have been disadvantaged as a result of this policy, or who believes this policy is not being adhered to, should make their feelings known to the Director of HR or other designated individual.

Re: Romance in the workplace policies

posted at 2/5/2013 1:28 PM EST on Workforce Management
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HI, I am currently looking for anyone that has policies regarding dating between co workers or office romance policies.
Posted by Jgreaves


My $0.02:
I remember these rules back when I was in college in the 60s.  I think most companies gave up trying to police their employee's personal lives years ago.   Yes, issues can arise from workplace relationsihps, but you just deal with what takes place at work.   Unless harassment issues come up, I normally don't get involved with this sort of thing.
Like I said, that's just my $0.02.

Re: Romance in the workplace policies

posted at 2/5/2013 5:38 PM EST on Workforce Management
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First: 9/21/2011
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Have to disagree with Ida....there can still be issues and I always prefer a policy to fall back on than one that I have to come up with when issues arise.  Here's ours.....not as long as the SHRM one, but definitely states the points that are important to us:

Non-Fraternization Policy


In order to avoid conflicts, misunderstandings, complaints of favoritism, problems of supervision, security, morale, and possible claims of sexual harassment, (company) maintains a strict policy against certain interpersonal kinds of fraternization. The policy forbids managers and supervisors to date, pursue, or maintain a romantic or sexual relationship with employees who they supervise, directly or indirectly.  Occasionally, co-workers become involved in a romantic or sexual relationship where both parties are consenting adults and the relationship in no way adversely impacts each individual’s right to work in a harassment free environment. In the event that the relationship creates problems relative to Equal Employment Opportunity issues, including, but not limited to, sexual harassment problems, each individual accepts full economic responsibility for any subsequent legal action or recourse the other party initiates. 

Other Employee Relationships

 (company)  reserves the right to decide if other relationships not covered by this policy present the kind of problems noted above. For example, (company) may decide that a relationship between two employees, or an employee and a member, present the kind of actual or potential problems described above. If a problem should arise, (company)may take whatever action it deems appropriate to resolve the matter.

Re: Romance in the workplace policies

posted at 2/5/2013 6:02 PM EST on Workforce Management
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Totally agree with Rupert.

It is always better to state your expectations regarding employee behavior as it sets the tone for what action the company may take in response to inappropriate behavior.

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